Trying to undrestand Men is not my job but I can't help but wonder....

This is not for people to say another disgruntled person, unfortunately I've never had that person that I can gush about, praise and blah blah blah. But I can tell you this, I've observed that most men from the same cultures act somewhat alike but very close that if this was a financial analysis you would round it up to the closest whole number. Why are my saying this?, well let me give you an example. When you are dating a nigerian guy, especially an older igbo guy they tend to treat you like you don't know anything and you are so lucky to have them in your life to guide you (As if). You know in the igbo culture there is a saying "the older the wiser", that is not necessarily true but hey I hope I get wiser when I am older. First of all the Honey moon period (which is when they are chasing you and telling you "you are the sugah in my tea and asking you how many pieces of chicken, meatpie and doughnut you want from unit one") for them that is getting to know you over the phone, as soon as you are comfortable enough to meet with him again that right there is the beginning of the relationship for him unknown to the woman he is chasing. They don't think actually taking time to get to know you is wise because there is a possibility that they might spend money on you, take you to a nice place for dinner, buy you things and at the end of the day you run with the less than $500 that he spent on you. I believe that if a man wants a woman, he should do whatever he can to keep her interested. Even if it means travelling long distance, buying her things, taking her out. There is nothing wrong with wanting nice things, and for a man to prove that he is worthy of your attention. After all he also wants nice things, nobi u he dey chase? Abegi. I believe that the key to true happiness which leads to everlasting love is pleasing your woman , once she is happy there is nothing that she won't do for you, no idiot she won't fight for you, no fillet minion or whatever she won't cook for you. Back to older igbo men ( who are not married because they are still waiting for their wives to be born, Oloshi), the dating period is when they want to find out if you can perform in bed, if you are a God fearing woman and if you can be controlled. I'll elaborate more on this when I have time, right now I have to go home and rest my pretty little head. Yup you guessed right I am at work and I know it ain't right but I love living dangerously like Bob Marley sings.
Have a nice weekend y'all.

Blogging.

Hi Everyone,

I have decided to blog and believe me that is a big step for me. I tend to talk alot and an opportunity to spill my guts to people who will never know me or might know me and not know that this is my blog, is very much alarming but guess what, that's what I live for. The fact that I can rant and rave, admire and hate, love and judge etc without the drama of why this and why that and you are evil or you are an angel is just too tempting for me to ignore. I am not a coward, cos I can hold my own in any situation. I do not have time for unnecessary stress because it's not good for me. it bothers me when people get me all stressed so it's best cut it off. Since I really can't say that much right now, but i'll be back like Arnold Swarchenegger.
Later.